Changemakers in Children’s House: Learning How to Lead

Changemakers in Children’s House: Learning How to Lead

“Hope is often misunderstood. People tend to think that it is simply passive wishful thinking: I hope something will happen but I’m not going to do anything about it. This is indeed the opposite of real hope, which requires action and engagement.”

Jane Goodall

The Book of Hope: A Survival Guide for Trying Times

It is one thing to want to make a change, but to actually take the passionate steps to making it happen is what makes someone a true changemaker. The one thing that all great changemakers have in common is heart. A changemaker is someone who cares enough to make a difference.

In Children’s House Writers’ Workshop, elder students (our Kindergarteners), continue to study Jane Goodall through the Roots and Shoots Program. Jane was pivotal in the study and protection of chimpanzees in Gombe, Tanzania. When she saw firsthand that the rainforest was disappearing and her beloved chimpanzees were suffering, she left Gombe and traveled the world speaking to humanity about what she has seen, sharing all of her true stories, some of tragedy but mostly true stories of hope.

I was very excited to share this autobiography, The Chimpanzees I Love : Saving Their World and Ours, with our Children’s House writers. The children have read many biographies written by various authors and throughout the year they have worked on their own biography of Jane.

Throughout the year, the children have been learning about other changemakers throughout the world, and how they acted to make a difference in their communities.

Another changemaker idol we are excited to write about is Tim Wong, an aquatic biologist from San Francisco who saved a threatened butterfly species, the California Pipevine Swallowtail, by replanting rare flora in his own backyard while also transporting caterpillars to his butterfly garden sanctuary. His efforts, although seemingly small, allowed the butterflies to make a comeback! What a heartwarming hero! 

“Improving habitat for native fauna is something anyone can do, conservation and stewardship can start in your very own backyard.”

Tim Wong

While learning about the incredible contributions of some amazing heart-minded adults, we definitely cannot forget the children, full of wonder and curiosity, they once were (and really still are at heart!). Tim Wong became fascinated with the life cycle of a butterfly in elementary school and Jane Goodall had a stuffed chimpanzee, Jubilee, that was gifted to her as a child. Now at 90 years old, she still carries Jubilee with her!

Old Enough to Save the Planet is a magical and hopeful collection of real children making real changes all around the world. I’m planning on sharing a child changemakers story at the beginning of our writing sessions until the end of the school year. Below are the first four changemakers we will learn about, true hopeful stories are powerful! I’m hoping my writers will soon feel inspired to make a change of their own, perhaps in their own school community or backyard!

  • Felix Finkbeiner, Germany Changemaker: Global Reforestation. His Plant-For-the-Planet program was so successful that more than one million trees have been planted in nearly 100 countries. 
  • Himangi Halder, India Changemaker: She reduced the effects of traffic pollution around her school by encouraging people to ride a bicycle instead of driving to school. 
  • Amy and Ella Meek, United Kingdom Changemaker: Sisters Amy and Ella started a charity educating people about the harmful effects of plastic on the environment. They encourage people to use reusable alternatives.
  • Adeline Tiffanie Suwana, Indonesia Changemaker: She formed a community group called Friends of Nature, organizing people to replant native mangrove trees that have been cut down.
Working Toward Toileting Independence

Working Toward Toileting Independence

Toilet training is adult-led and on the adults’ time. Toilet learning involves the child in the learning process.  This is their big work.

“Learning to use the toilet is a natural process that begins when your child’s desire to be grown up and his neurological development have reached the point where he can control his bladder and bowels. We don’t train children to use the toilet, we support them when they are ready.” (Tim Seldin, Author of How to Raise an Amazing Child: The Montessori Way to Bring Up Caring Confident Children)

Exposure: The Earlier the Better

During Infancy

  • Talking about toileting and using bathroom
  • Use correct anatomical language
  • Learn to recognize when infants need to “go”
  • Have infants sit on potty chair (or at least have one out) so that they get familiar with it

At 12 months

  • Get your child familiar with the tools used in toileting (like a potty chair)
  • Work on dressing skills – being able to get pants on and off, pulled down and up independently
  • Start watching for signs of readiness. Toilet learning is easiest before 24 months (when the full self-will develops).
Choice of Diapers
  • Disposable diapers is the most commonly used
  • The use of cloth diapers (if a you go that route) allows a child to experience the wetness, allowing for earlier toilet-learning
  • Pull-ups are not recommended – they are just like diapers and will only prolong the toilet learning process
Signs of Readiness
  • Interested in the toilet
  • Seeking privacy to go to the bathroom in his/her diaper
  • Will sit willing on the toilet – this should not be a battle
  • Will void into the toilet – becoming aware that they are emptying their bladder
Preparing the Environment

Select an area of the house that includes a bathroom. Either select a tiled area or roll up the rugs. Invite your child to help you set up the area.

Supplies needed:

  • Potty chair and/or potty seat adapter (attaches to the adult toilet seat)
  • Step stool to toilet
  • Step stool to sink
  • Liquid hand soap they can easily use
  • Basket of clean underwear
  • Basket of clean rags
  • Spray bottle that your child can operate independently
  • Timer
  • Basket of books, games, things to do (could be special items that can only be used when sitting on the toilet)
Preparing Your Child
  • When the child is able to stand, change her diaper with her standing up; she can help
  • Whenever you can, empty the contents of the diaper into the toilet and let the child watch you do it
  • Take him/her to pick out underwear
  • Underwear should be thin – not training pants
  • Tell your child ahead of time that you will be switching to underwear on __ day. Count down to this day (mark on a calendar, talk about it at dinner, etc.)
  • Maintain a calm, yet excited demeanor (no pressure)
Practicing

Let your child know when the big day has arrived! Enjoy lots of extra beverages to encourage practice.

  • Use the mantra, “We want to keep our underwear dry.”
  • Have your child sit on the toilet for a minute or two
  • Talk with him/her about the feeling of going to the bathroom.  “Do you feel any urine in your bladder?

Always offer a choice!

  • “Would you like to sit on the potty or the toilet?”
  • “Would you like to select your underwear or would you like me to pick it?”

Try Using a Timer

  • Set the timer to remind you and your child to go and sit on the toilet
  • Start with setting the timer for every 20/30 minutes
  • As they stay drier longer, you can start stretching the time
  • Do not ask if they have to go – they will tell you no – they will not want to stop what they are doing in that moment
  • They WILL NOT tell you when they have to go!
  • Keep it very matter-of-fact.  “It’s time to use the toilet.”

The Following Days

  • Keeping the schedule consistent is key
  • Take a potty in the trunk of the car or limit outings to 1 hour
  • Go to the bathroom before each trip out
  • Go to the bathroom immediately upon arrival
  • Go again before leaving
  • Go again immediately when arriving at home
Accidents
  • Continue to talk/ask about how his/her body feels -but do not hover- remember that mistakes happen and that is how they learn. They need to feel that they are in control of their bodies and this big work
  • Ask, “Are your underwear dry or wet?” (brings attention to this)
  • When your child wets or has a bowel movement in their underwear – don’t overreact! It’s best to stay calm and try not to reference it as an “accident.” Just simply state the obvious – “you wet/soiled your underwear” “now it’s time to get cleaned up.”
Celebrating Successes
  • When successful, describe the success. “You went to the bathroom in the toilet!” “You sat on the toilet and peed!” 
  • Avoid using bribery like stickers or candy. Toileting is something we all do. Children do not need praise for toileting.
  • Celebrate victories with your child – but do not make your love conditional on success.
Suggested Schedule (Post Training)

Daytime:

  • Right when they get up
  • Right before meals
  • Right after meals
  • Right before bath
  • Right before bed
  • Before going out in car
  • Upon arrival at new destination

Nighttime:

  • Parent choice: toilet-learning happens faster when nighttime is done at the same time, but it’s also ok to focus on daytime success first before tackling overnights

Please coordinate with your child’s Guide.  This process will go more smoothly when you work in partnership!

Resources

Danuta Wilson, Toddler Guide and Team Leader at Greenspring Montessori School, presents on toilet learning at home the Montessori way.

Lower Elementary Students Mystery History Presentations in Honor of Black History Month

Lower Elementary Students Mystery History Presentations in Honor of Black History Month

Our Redbud Lower Elementary class celebrated Black History Month with special Mystery History Presentations. They have been researching inspiring black leaders, advocates, and public figures. They then created presentations, and families had to guess the “mystery” speaker. We had the pleasure to hear from Ruby Bridges, Barrack Obama, Michael Jordan, Harriet Tubman, Jackie Robinson, Ray Charles, and many more.

Elementary Students Travel to New York for Model United Nations Conference

Elementary Students Travel to New York for Model United Nations Conference

In February our Upper Elementary students visited New York for the Montessori Model United Nations Conference. They have worked so hard this year to represent United Nations topics for Uruguay, Croatia, and United Arab Emirates.

What is Montessori Model United Nations?

Upper Elementary students in fifth and sixth grade participate in the Montessori Model United Nations (MMUN) as an After-School Program at Greenspring Montessori School. MMUN is an international group that seeks to empower young leaders through research, cultural studies, critical thinking, and problem-solving. MMUN works directly with the United Nations and implements elements of the Montessori Method to create an enriching experience for students and faculty.

Elementary students meet after school for months in preparation for the annual MMUN conference in New York City. The topics they researched ranged from food security and water scarcity to gender equity and disarmament. Students prepared a research paper and then drafted a one minute persuasive speech to present to other MMUN students from around the world. 

They learn together the need for peace and lasting conflict resolution, skills that will follow them through life.

Click here to learn more about our Elementary Program and here to learn more about Montessori Model United Nations.

Adolescents Present to Maryland Lawmakers at Lobby Day

Adolescents Present to Maryland Lawmakers at Lobby Day

Our Adolescents visited the Maryland State House in Annapolis for Lobby Day where they presented to legislators on upcoming bills. Their bills included restorative practices in schools, animal rights laws, paid leave for parents, water bottle refill stations in Baltimore City, funding for the 988 hotline, youth sports safety commission, porch piracy laws, and prescription coverage for workers’ compensation. ⁠

Thank you to the delegates, senators, and staffers who shared their time with our Greenspring students. And a special thanks to Greenspring parent, Jen Brock, for volunteering your time to support our students in this important work.

Children as Changemakers

Children as Changemakers

The role of a changemaker is to achieve positive change through taking action. Changemakers are intentional about identifying a problem and are willing to work toward a solution through creative action.

At Greenspring, students of all ages are invited to contribute to their community. These efforts are student-led and student-driven, with gentle support and guidance provided as needed.

Toddlers

Toddlers begin by caring for what is most familiar: plants and animals, their classroom and outdoor environment, and their classmates.

Children’s House

Children’s House students extend their service to include the school community and campus. For example, they assist with campus-wide composting and participate in Grounds Days.

Lower Elementary

Elementary students begin Going Out trips, during which they leave campus to engage with the larger community. For example, students may visit elders in a retirement community or grow grasses for replanting in the Chesapeake Bay. Students often initiate their own service projects, such as this winter coat and food drive and helping at the Maryland Book Bank.

Upper Elementary

Students continue planning Going Out and service projects that take them into the larger community. For example, students recently organized a fundraiser to support the victims of the California wildfires. They also visited Art with a Heart in Baltimore to learn more about their programs that serve those in need. Many participate in the Montessori Model United Nations (MMUN) program, which culmitates in a multi-day event at the United Nations headquarters in New York City.

Adolescents

Adolescents research issues of social justice and become advocates for causes they are passionate about. They practice persuasive public speaking during Igniting Voice presentations each trimester. Adolescents also work as a group to run small businesses (or “microeconomies’). These microeconomies not only provide a way for students to generate funds for their projects and trips, but serve as an integrated curriculum that provides opportunities for real-world, experiential learning and for serving the community.

You can encourage and empower your child to be a changemaker! Here are some tips:

Spark Curiosity and Conversation:

  • Talk about your family’s values.
  • Discuss current events and local issues appropriate for their age, asking open-ended questions to encourage critical thinking.
  • Share stories of inspiring changemakers like Malala Yousafzai or Greta Thunberg.
  • Watch documentaries or read age-appropriate books about social justice topics.

Identify Areas of Passion:

  • Encourage your child to explore their interests and identify causes they care about and that connect to your family’s values, whether it’s animal welfare, environmental protection, or helping the homeless.
  • Let them choose a focus area where they feel most motivated to make a difference.

Take Action Together:

  • Volunteer at local organizations aligned with their interests, allowing them to directly contribute to a cause.
  • Start small projects at home, like a recycling drive, a food donation collection, or a community clean-up.
  • Participate in letter-writing campaigns or online petitions to advocate for change.

Empower Their Voice:

  • Encourage them to express their opinions and ideas openly, even if they seem small.
  • Teach them how to respectfully communicate their concerns to authorities or decision-makers.
  • Practice public speaking skills by giving presentations at school or community events.

Foster Creativity and Innovation:

  • Brainstorm creative solutions to problems they identify in their community.
  • Encourage them to design posters, create art projects, or write songs related to their cause.
  • Support their efforts to develop unique initiatives to address a problem.

Celebrate Achievements:

  • Recognize and acknowledge their contributions, no matter how small.
  • Share their accomplishments with family and friends to build pride and motivation.
Resources for Families

Doing Good Together – Baltimore chapter
https://www.doinggoodtogether.org/family-volunteering-baltimore

ChangemakerCommunities.org
https://www.changemakercommunities.org/resources-for-parents-guardians

 

“We must look to the children as a vehicle for bringing change to humanity.” 

Dr. Maria Montessori